Where to go after death
Peter M von Maltitz
7 April 2000
Abstract:
The most common disturbance that I have observed in psychotic cases
is caused by the presence of “dead” people co-inhabiting the body of the
patient. Unless we stop assuming that every consciousness directly
experienced is “self”, give the patient confidence to be on his own and
help the “dead” people on their way, we cannot really change the situation
for the patient. Indications of the presence of “dead” people are: arguing
in our consciousness with a critical voice which may appear to be located
in any part of the body; intermittent total loss of memory during which
time other people observed us acting differently; chronic progressive paralysis
or pain with no physical medical explanation.
I have observed that
people can be invaded during birth trauma, when feeling abandoned at the
age of about four, at funerals, under general anaesthetic, when abusing
drugs or alcohol, and during a serious shock situation. Professional
spiritual healers who can deal with extra inhabitants should be called
on to assist. The public should be made aware of the consequences
of being unnaturally out of body, the conditions that give rise to it,
and how the supporting positive thoughts of the family and friends can
protect a person in these situations.
I work as a spiritual healer in private practice in Cape Town and Avontuur.
When I was at school I discovered that I could influence people by
my thoughts. I would think of a likely answer to a question that a fellow
pupil had been asked. If he did not actually know the answer and
looked for something to say, he invariably picked the idea that I mentally
offered. I soon realized that this was not a very positive use of
the unseen world and moreover impinged on the freedom of others.
For many years I avoided any engagement in the unseen world and tried to
find a useful career.
I trained as a scientist at Stellenbosch University and graduated with
a B.Sc. in Agriculture with Plant Pathology and Entomology as my majors.
Later I did an honors degree in Plant Pathology and worked as a Plant Pathologist
for five years at the Stellenbosch Plant Quarantine Station.
I entered the spiritual traditions of the West (Goethean), East
(yoga) and of Africa(igqira) but most of all I have learned from my clients
(by empirical observation of their conditions). The most valuable contribution
that the Goethean theory of knowledge made for me came from the studies
in plant metamorphosis. This helped me to integrate my thinking and
feeling. To be able to enliven my thinking with feeling by turning
my thoughts into living moving images made it possible to think without
words. The practice of Hatha Yoga taught me to experience my body
as a living intelligent storehouse of knowledge. It showed me how
the experience of my own body determines my relationship to the world.
I have spent many years doing computer programming and the exercise
in logic makes it easy for me to distinguish between logical conclusions
generated in my mind and direct perceptions. This has helped enormously
in perceiving and communicating with the normally unseen worlds.
Studying with the igqirha showed me that ideas of telepathy and guidance
and inspiration were in fact commonplace. It was the use of instant
knowledge based in the will that was the most impressive. To access the
will one has to be involved with the will. That means dancing and
drumming till the soul is flying and then answering questions so quickly
that there is no time to think about them.
As a spiritual healer I have access to both the conscious present and
unconscious past of the client. There are many things to learn from
these experiences: effects of curses, traps, possession, twasa, karma,
unfinished business, fear, voices, daemons, responsibility. Books
are a poor second when you discover in every person an encyclopedia of
history that stretches over centuries into the past with intricate bonds
of relationships to events, intentions, consequences and other people.
We might at first object to the statement that we could experience what
others experience. That is only true if we limit our experience to
our bodies. If we allow our feelings to flow beyond our bodies we
will be able to feel what others around us feel. Whether we can cope
with it is another question.
One might think that this is just all opinion and delusion, but so are
the theories of science until one discovers that some of them are usable.
They are usable because we recognize the principles involved and have discovered
how to apply them. Once one has discovered the principles of a lever
one still does not really understand it until one tries to apply it. Likewise
it is with the world of spirits.
It is only when trying to move them that
you develop a real understanding of their properties. The first principle
to grasp is that there are always four distinct ways of looking at things.
In Europe they tend to look at matter and the idea, in Africa and Asia
they look at the spirit, in the Americas they look at the forces. These
are however different aspects and although related they cannot be used
to explain each other. One cannot explain or define the essence of
a being with the help of forces or ideas or matter. The second principle
is that beings try to maintain their existence.
To Africans from Africa both the idea and experience of spirits is not
foreign. I will not ignore this fact in describing what have observed
even though the western mind usually tries to ignore it.
In this paper I would like to look at a common and disturbing situation
that causes endless problems to the living. It is the fact that many
people who die do not know what to do or where to go. After death
people hang around because they are afraid of going on their way to the
light. I understand that their situation is the consequence
of our present civilization and its almost total ignorance of what happens
after death. Some religions have a story to tell but it is mostly
hearsay, misrepresented with the aim of controlling people, generalized,
and might have been more accurate in the past. On investigation the
facts at present are as follows:
When a person dies he leaves his body. It is really just the body
that dies. He can still perceive himself and most other people around
him, dead and alive. If he has been a materialist believing
that he was going to disappear at death then he is mostly intrigued at
the fact that he has not disappeared into oblivion and can still observe
his surroundings. If going on means that he really will disappear,
then why go anywhere?
If he had been a believer and heard all
the stories of heaven and hell and been threatened with going to hell then
surely if he goes anywhere he will be judged and cast into hell.
After all, everyone has done something “wrong” at some or other time.
So we have a situation in which most people educated in the norms of western
society are not ready to go anywhere. They have not been taught that
all you need to do after death is go to the light.
Hanging around can however be a lonely setup especially when the dead
person discovers that the live people around him don’t hear him except
during sleep. If he can join them however, there is company and safety
to be had. On what basis can the person get into another live person’s
body. Either the live person must invite them in, or the live person
must have been forced to temporarily leaving his body in an unprotected
condition.
Once the “visitor” is inside, the live person usually
perceives his presence as another voice in his consciousness. Because we
assume that we are what we are conscious of, we do not recognize the “visitor”as
foreign. Ask yourself whether you argue with yourself? Do they say
you have multiple personalities? Is there another critical voice?
Are there gaps in your memory of the recent past? Some people think the
critical voice is their conscience!!
Why would a live person invite a dead person to join him?
When the person is desperate such as during birth trauma, or feeling
abandoned often at the age of about four years, he is likely to invite
help, any help. At funerals a person may be very sad and wish sincerely
that the person who has died would not leave.
What would drive a person out of his body and leave it in an unprotected
condition?
In hospitals while under general anaesthetic the person is driven out
of his body. On returning he often finds someone else already inside
or busy getting in. This is often associated with extreme nausea.
Throwing up is an easy way to get the visitors out and is still used in
some societies. Using so-called recreational drugs which are in fact
mind suppressive, such as people do at parties nowadays can have dire consequences.
Mostly these are called having a bad trip and sometimes they never
fully recover. Alcohol can be a big problem especially for those
easily affected. Having a big fright can easily dissociate a person from
his body. We commonly refers to being frightened out of our skins
or being beside ourselves.
Can one set up protection?
Most definitely. Get your family or friends to keep up a vigil
during an operation etc.. They need to hold positive thoughts that
all will go well.
What are the consequences of having another person in your body with
you?
There are various kinds of consequences in progressively disrupting
order:
1. Physical:
a. immediate: nausea.
b. long term:
i. Experiencing the desires that the visitor has. Quite often
the patient will suddenly develop a new set of likes that don’t make any
sense until you see who the visitor is! One genteel lady suddenly
wanted beer and sausages every evening. Six months earlier she had
had an operation in a German hospital.
ii. Exhibiting the symptoms of disease that the dead person had.
In the case of a twin sister that had died of a stroke the live sister
developed progressive lateral paralysis over a period of two years.
Two seconds after she was freed she could speak and walk again and has
remained healthy some 4 years now.
2. Mental:
a. Psychotic
i. Back seat driver. You know that never ending stream
of comments from the other voice.?
ii. Guilty. When you participate in some breakaway part-time
to totally distract your consciousness from the other voice, you
find on returning that you have to face the criticism!
iii. Confusion of identity. Every case of gender confusion
I have seen has been one where the visitor is of the opposite gender, and
objects violently when the patient shows an interest in some “other”
person. It seems that people who have recently died do not give up
their identity with the gender they had when they were alive.
b. possessed
i. Struggling. When there is violent inner conflict for control.
I had one case where two male visitors got highly perturbed when a girl
they were inhabiting, fell in love the first time. They had
been with her since birth and regarded her as belonging to them.
That is worse than a jealous father.!
ii. Absent. When after the first drink you lost all memory
of what happened the evening before. That was when the visitor took over
and lived in your body.
How does the “visitor” attach itself to your body ?
Usually I notice that they attach via at least two “hooks” that
are anchored around or in one or more organs in the body. These organs
then show chronic dysfunction. They often are the organs affected in both
the patient and the “visitor”. For instance a person that is always
worried will have a stomach dysfunction and his visitor is also a worried
person who might have died of a stomach ulcer. Sometimes they move into
the one side of the body.
What can you do about getting cleaned?
Find a healer that will do this kind of work. Many of them will
avoid this work as they are not prepared to get “contaminated”.
There are many ways that it can be done but I prefer
firstly: laying my hands on the
affected organs and separating the hold of the visitor.
secondly: lifting the consciousness of the “visitor” up and calling
on their relatives or friends to come and fetch them. Sometimes they
will resist all efforts at raising their consciousness. Then I raise the
consciousness of the patient and the “visitor” drops out. Whatever he tries
to do, separate him I will, then raise his consciousness and call for help.
Conditions for releasing the unwanted people.
It is essential that the patient is prepared to be on his own,
make decisions for himself, take responsibility for his decisions and give
up the need to have “visitors” who keep him company.
Secondly the “visitor” has to be convinced that it is time to move
on and that he does not have to be afraid. In fact you will keep him company
all the way until his friends collect him. He has to know that it
is safe to go to the light, that his health will be restored, that he is
not needed here any more and that even if he does not have the strength
to go up he will be helped by you. All he has to be is willing.
You have to make friends with the “visitors” otherwise they will not
accept help. It is no use “driving” them out. They will probably
only sidestep you and hide until you are away and then come back. If you
tie them down to some object then all you have done is put them in bondage
and even more pain.
The very best is to help them on the way to where they need or want
to go but are afraid or think it is not possible to go.
Perspectives:
Not all “visitors” are bad. When a woman is pregnant she
takes another person on board. It can temporarily make her very nauseous,
give her totally new food likes and dislikes, and land her with disease
conditions like eczema or fever. All these are an expression of the child
just like the effects of a “visitor”.
If one invites another personality to temporarily come in with the purpose
of teaching or treating someone it can be good. It is commonly done
by Sangomas when calling on their ancestral spirits. It is usually called
channeling in the West or being overshadowed but the person should remain
in full control and be able to assert himself at any time. It can be the
most wonderful experience ever when a great being works though you
when dealing with a very sick person.
What can we do for the dying and dead.
It is important to teach everyone to go to the light when they die,
and not to be afraid. We also need to teach those who stay behind to wish
the dead well and send them off with our love. Having burial ceremonies
is a good thing if they are done in the right way. We have to be careful
to keep children under the age of seven near us and in our protection.
In the African tradition it is good to wash with Mphapha bark after a burial
ceremony to let everything go.
Dangers of the work.
It is not difficult to open yourself to others through sympathy.
The problem is what to do with the pains that you pick up from other persons.
If through sympathy you feel what another feels it is also possible for
beings and curses that live in them to move over into you. If you can deal
with them that is fine but otherwise you will have “burn out”, total exhaustion,
pains, etc.. There is a reason why many Nurses seem so hard and militaristic
in their caring. They have to protect themselves unless they have
become healers.
It is essential that work undertaken in this way must be done carefully.
It can be a physical danger as much as a mental one to both the patient
and the healer if he releases a daemon. They are relatively rare but do
occur. If on laying on hands a tremendous pain starts creeping up
your arm then stop the process immediately unless you know how to deal
with it.
To be able to do this work effectively you need to know who you really
are after everything has been taken from you including your possessions,
desires, friends, social standing, family, gender, senses, importance,
control over anything around you or in your body. You also have to know
how to raise your consciousness. You have to be harmless otherwise you
will not be trusted with power and you will be open to attack. You have
to be fearless otherwise you cannot do anything. You have to have
no secrets to hide otherwise you will not be able to open your mind.
You have to give up your pride or you will be demolished in the spiritual
world so as to make you ineffective. Finally you need to develop sympathy
for that is bridge of consciousness.
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